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Diversity Is Overrated

by Hans Hageman

Talking About Diversity
Some people have a very limited view of diversity. Most people avoid the topic completely in the absence of EEO, HR, and “progressive” mandates. I thought seriously about staying out of the fray but here I am!

Jumping Into The Pool
There are a few reasons that I have made the leap. I am one of the “And People.” My nature and nurture make me an embodiment of The Mosaic. My children have the same gift/curse. It is also not lost on me that many people have made a significant living out of the topic – some deservedly so. I regard myself as an equal opportunity critic when speaking truth to power. This means that it was important for me to enter the field in order to confront the Diversity Mafia. I have the most experience with this group at the independent school level. They are often the Talented Tenth who somehow got discovered and marched on to claim their elite education birthright. They know all the diversity buzzwords and jargon and control the red velvet rope against those who don’t. Their class fears are as strong as the those of the oligarchs whose “accomplishments” they worship.

Taking The Cheap Way Out
Albert Einstein stated, “The significant problems we have cannot be solved at the same level of thinking with which we created them.” Yet the purveyors of the party pablum insist on fighting the battle of diversity on the fields of cultural and identity diversity. School administrators and diversity coordinators love to put on the cultural events that celebrate their efforts at open-mindedness. Like reform efforts in public school accountability, these events are cheap and easy to do and everyone feels that they have done their part to make the tent bigger.

Fairness
I have worked with too many children who will never get the chance to see their cuisine sampled, songs sung, or humanity dignified. The common denominator for these children is their poverty. We allow private schools, elite colleges, and Fortune 500 companies to conflate race and ethnicity with deprivation. The five year-old of any race, growing up in a poor household will never have the chance to be invited to the dance.

Most people in this country will profess and believe they are open-minded on issues of race, gender, ethnicity, etc. It’s generally not popular to be a bigot. Ask people to contribute to a system that ensures educational equity for all poor children and they avert their eyes while their fingers point to the nice wall displays for Black History Month.

As the author Walter Benn Michaels asserts, “celebrating diversity shouldn’t be an acceptable alternative to seeking economic equality.”

We should not allow discrimination. Stereotype rigidity and the “Stereotype Threat” (see the research by Claude Steele) are very real problems and have to be addressed. This should not prevent debates on ideas and ideologies.

Most people don’t have access to the elite education that will open the doors to the American Dream. No one should be let off the hook just because their school or business seems appropriately diverse – there’s still that tiny, nagging issue about equality.

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Bullying and Some Thoughts On Stopping It

by Hans Hageman

Help Them Out Of Their Corner

Bullying
Bullying has captured the national attention. Some tragic incidents have caused a reexamination of how parents and schools can keep kids safe. The use of the Internet and social media sites have made it easier to attack victims and complicated the search for a solution.

Sources
Bullies are not a new phenomenon. Bullies are sometimes created out of their own fear and insecurity. Some are predators. Lt. Col. Dave Grossman talks about the world being divided into lambs, wolves, and sheepdogs. Most people are sheep. They are kind, gentle, and productive. Then there are the wolves who prey on the sheep without mercy. Sheepdogs live to protect the flock and to confront the wolf. If you have no capacity for violence, you are a sheep. If you have the capacity for violence in pursuit of your ends and engage in it with no remorse, you are a wolf. If you have the capacity for violence and combine it with a deep love for your fellow human beings, you are a sheepdog. While I think there are more gradations, I believe this is a helpful outline when examining the problem of bullying.

The Real Enemy
The normal prescription for victims is to get teachers and parents involved. it is important to bring the physical and emotional violence to light but this is usually not enough when a predator is involved or when the group mind has taken over. In talking about the human mind, Primo Levi said that: “Many people – many nations – can find themselves holding, more or less wittingly, that ‘every stranger is an enemy.’”
The stranger, the enemy is kind of complicated in the case of bullies. I believe that many bullies are created as a result of their estrangement from their essential natures. This is coupled with an estrangement from Nature. This mirrors a pervasive national numbness of spirit and somatic deadening.

My Theory
I also believe that we are sacred, individual creations of God. We descend into purgatory or worse when we lose contact with this sacred essence. Those who live in this wilderness of the spirit hate those who maintain its essence.  For bullies, the keepers of the sacred flame are the “strangers” and the “enemies” that Levi talks about. They are a mirror and reminder of what was lost. Our current existence does not provide them with guides on how to regain what was lost. The bullies among us default to anger and hatred. In a paraphrase of a quote on power, Rosabeth Moss Kanter pointed out that “absolute powerlessness corrupts absolutely.”

I like to think that I have the soul of poet. With this disposition, I was fortunate to go to a school where open bullying was frowned on. I have been in other situations where my “sensitive side” could have been a liability, except for one thing – early on, I learned that there were times you had to kick someone’s ass and be prepared to have your own kicked, in defense of protecting your spiritual core. I was raised to be a “sheepdog.” I was taught to protect myself and others.

Solutions
Communities and cultures need to be developed where bullies are not tolerated but the problem cannot be legislated away. Theodore Roosevelt said that his father taught him to be tough as well as kind. His father believed that if Teddy was tough enough, people would not long laugh at his being kind. Victims need to be given tools. This needs to start with what Timothy Gallwey called “The Inner Game.” The tools of sports psychology and things like Neurolinguistic Programming could help with building mental toughness – confidence, resilience, positive self-talk, relaxation, motivation, and creating well-formed outcomes. This would be combined with physical skills that would help the poets among us explore the intersections between physical and moral courage. Even Gandhi understood that violence could sometimes be morally required.  Learning basic skills of self defense – based in boxing and some form of grappling – would provide confidence and a sense of agency while the adults figure things out.

At the same time, the bullies who have not achieved predator status need to have chances to rediscover their sacred purpose. They need to be coached and guided to appreciate the miracle of nature and to recognize the sources of their actions. This is not possible with the current factory model of schooling.  Decisions will have to be made.

My children have inherited my poet’s soul. My job is now to teach them how to protect that soul and the gifts that God has given them. My prayer is that they will add the job of “sheepdog” to their resumes.

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Theory of Everything – My Thoughts On Stopping The Insanity

by Hans Hageman

Theory of Everything


Theory of Everything
The Theory of Everything was originally an ironic description of the links that connected all known physical phenomena. It also claimed to be able to predict the outcome for any future experiments that involved the physical world. Science no longer regards it as an ironic over-generalization. It is now regarded as a legitimate path to the truth of the way things work. It is in that spirit and new awareness that I introduce my theory of everything.

Education, Food, Personal Development
This post is just an introduction to a few of the things I will be talking about in some future posts. The main topics are education, food, and personal development. I will talk about these in the context of personal justice. I will be sharing my thoughts and those of others who are more cogent and insightful in the respective areas. A couple of these people are Kenneth Libby with his Schools Matter blog and Robb Wolf who talks about the Paleo lifestyle in his podcast and blog.

Oh! By the way, these thoughts were prompted by some recent musings on the world of diversity. It is becoming increasingly clear to me that issues of economic justice are purposely ignored. In this country, it is poor people who suffer. Topics like affirmative action and diversity have become convenient diversions to ignore those who are not even in the game.

Food
Big agriculture receives its subsidies and it’s poor people who reap the harvest of diabetes, high blood pressure, and other lifestyle diseases ( read anything by Michael Pollan for some of the politics)

Education
The wealthy advocates of the charter movement pretend that high standardized test scores are a sign that the achievement gap is being closed and that poor children are receiving the same quality of education that their children are receiving (rant avoided for now).

Personal Development
This Howard Thurman quote sums up my thoughts in this area: “Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

These three areas are not just “feel good” subjects. I believe they are the key to our strength as a country. Cultural autism (for more on this, read “Last Child In The Woods,” by Richard Louv) has removed us from our natural environment, contact with our true natures, and the things we have in common as a human community.

More to come.

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